Villain Quiz


Please take a moment to answer the 7 questions below to learn which villain may be keeping you from getting what you want out of your relationships in life.

The seven questions correspond numerically to the Villains numbered and listed right below the questions. After each question please circle on a scale of 1 to 5 how much you experience the feelings described. (1 denotes seldom feeling that way, all the way to 5 representing feeling that way a lot.)  When finished add up your score and see where you fall on the Communication Hero, Villain or Victim Scale.


1) Do you find yourself stuck in a chain of complaints – never totally happy with anything at work or in life, as if you’ve been tricked or misled?

0 1 2 3 4 5 ____________ Your Rating

2) Do you feel like you’re never quite enough – pretty enough, rich enough, talented enough, smart enough, lucky enough…to get the job done?

0 1 2 3 4 5 _____________ Your Rating

3) Has some event or person killed your self-confidence or joy at work?

0 1 2 3 4 5 _____________ Your Rating

4) Do you find it necessary to hide behind excuses or role-playing instead of just being yourself?

0 1 2 3 4 5 _____________ Your Rating

5) Do you feel like something or someone is always more powerful than you, leaving you helpless, hopeless – even victimized?

0 1 2 3 4 5 _____________ Your Rating

6) Has the ability to love what you do been largely replaced by fear or anxiety in your life?

0 1 2 3 4 5 _____________ Your Rating

7) Do you find yourself waiting for the right circumstances to move forward, yet the circumstances are never quite right enough?

 0 1 2 3 4 5 _____________ Your Rating


Total Points_____________


1-3:  Congratulations!  You are a hero and a master of


4 –10:  You are conquering the communication villains, but you are

still vulnerable.

11-15:  Unfortunately, you are a “victim” in conversations that determine your power.  But, there is hope.

16 and above:  One or more communication villains are running your

life.  Moving forward demands disarming them.

 Villains: 1) Saboteur, 2) Pirate, 3) Killer, 4) Mugger, 5) Monster, 6) Lost Love, 7) Sorceress.

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