On Memorial Day, A Lesson Learned from Combat Veterans
By Judith Parker Harris
Block: Ego.
Buster: Go beyond thought to the zero point.
Seventeen years ago while working on my book, HEAD OVER HEALING IN LOVE, I had the pleasure of interviewing Mark Learner about the role of thought in healing disease. Mark had just turned 30 when he was diagnosed with progressive MS. Eighty percent blind and numb over most of his body, Mark says MS put him on the most intense spiritual journey he could imagine. At the time of the interview, Mark was 12 years into living with MS. In that time Mark had started two corporations, written three books and spent as much time as possible counseling people with serious illnesses and handicaps, many of them veterans. It was the lessons he shared with me from the veterans that remain with me today, especially in my own teaching.
Mark explained that when healing (or dealing with blocks) it’s important to go to a point far beyond perceptions and conceptions. He said, “Combat veterans have the most intense experience of death I’ve ever known. I feel that most people resist that, because to enter depth, which I call the zero point, is to go beyond thinking. It’s the same as death to the ego. I feel the majority of religions are based on a level of belief systems. To find what I was looking for, I had to go beyond my belief system.”
Combat vets are often not spiritual people, but they’ve had the deepest spiritual experience I’ve ever seen, because during intense combat, they were forced beyond thoughts. Nobody thought, “What am I having for dinner tonight?” They were just alert — with clear awareness, fighting for their lives.
Mark then shared a positive/negative self exercise with me that he learned from combat vets who had to create habits in order not to think. He asked me to think of the worst thing that ever happened to me and to capture the experience in a word. I thought PANIC. Mark had me imagine the physical sensations of panic and give the self that felt that way a name — I chose “Ditzel.” Next, Mark led me to do the opposite. I concentrated on the best thing that had happened to me and feelings related to that. I thought of EUPHORIA, imagined feeling a blissful peace, and named the self with those feelings “Darling.” Mark taught me how to automatically connect to Darling, my positive self, by feeling the pulse on the side of my neck and repeating, “I am darling…” According to Mark, by doing that nightly before going to sleep, while concentrating on images of myself when I felt “darling,” my positive responses would become automatic.
The reality is, Darling is connected to the silence and the inner resources much better than Ditzel who is connected to the doubting voices in your head. It’s the zero point. If you return importance to your zero point, you can trust yourself and connect to your resources. You can’t give that zero point a concept, like God, however, because then you put importance in the concept representing the zero point. Mark calls it the wisdom of the body without the film of the mind.
“Value life,” exclaims Mark. “Nothing you think is as important as your life. Even the thoughts of your family and the people you love dearly, are not as important as your life. For instance, if you have a close relationship with your husband, it goes far beyond the mental agreement; there’s a bond that’s closer to life than what’s in your mind.”
With Mark’s blessing, I have shared the technique with hundreds of people who have used it to quit smoking, survive loss, heal relationships, gain confidence to communicate better, survive financial reverses, turn businesses around, and so much more.
The reality is that when you’re faced with death, your ego (your thoughts) becomes insignificant. To consciously deal with that, is an incredibly evolving reality. In our society, people don’t consciously face that. The worst part of a terminal illness is the ego’s death, not physical death.
On Memorial Day as we honor those who have faced death and given their lives so that our beloved nation could survive and so that others could taste the freedom we hold dear, I ask you to pause in a moment of silence and meet our veterans in a place beyond thought – the zero point where all is possible as we connect to a field of wisdom and love that is never-ending.
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